"Flirting"

Do you know how to flirt? How well do you know? Do you know when she is flirting with you?

This is a skill that you should master on the dating field. And when you are an Alpha male, the interaction is even simpler.

Flirting may consist of stylized gestures, language, body language, postures, and physiologic signs. Among these are:

• Eye contact, batting eyelashes, etc.
• "Protean" signals, such as touching one's hair
• Casual touches; such as a woman gently touching a man's arm during conversation
• Smiling suggestively
• Winking
• Sending notes, poems, or small gifts
• Flattery
• Online chat, is a common modern tactic as well as other one-on-one and direct messaging services
• Footsie, the "feet under the table" practice
• Teasing

"When a flirt fishes for a man, she fishes merely for the sport."

Lower your expectations. Make it fun, so don't take it too seriously. Most of the time, you'll just flirt with someone for a short time and then maybe never talk to them again.

If you always go in to it expecting to date or even marry the person you're flirting with, you're going to be very disappointed--and you'll probably seem a little desperate. Remember, you're just flirting.

You should not with someone who you are sure that you're not romantically interested in, period. Otherwise, you risk accidentally leading them on, which can lead to an embarrassing moment and uncomfortable interactions afterwards. But still remember that you are not getting married, yet.

Experiment with compliments, in that it should have a kind of sincerity attached to it. Attract people who seem different than you or who you do not know much about, and they could surprise you.

Use seduction that is appropriate for the setting. Meeting at a library or loud dance hall, for example, might not be conducive to talking too much.

In this case, smile, act interested, and wait for a spontaneous opportunity to meet at the punch bowl or in the lobby. Do not however, appear to be a stalker or you will scare them away.

Some great spots to meet women are the Mall, supermarkets, gyms, public transportation, driving and the work place.

Because I consider bars and clubs to be very competitive in New York, a guy needs to have a much better game or lots of luck. But they are a great training ground.

Some buddies love to shout and tease women while driving. And they do it well, especially when they improvise, which impresses women more.

When the girl is very good looking, she will be so used to having guys flirt with her that it won't mean anything. Be cocky and funny.

Poke fun at her a little bit and make her laugh. Don't be mean! But, a little sarcasm here and there helps.

The girl will feel like you are a challenge that needs to be conquered. Just keep it up and soon you'll have her in your arms.

List of Top Ten Flirting Tips
By Fran Greene

1. Flirting is an attitude: A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive, it works!
2. Start a conversation: The best opening line is saying hello.Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion.
3. Have fun: Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability.
4. Use props: Never leave home without a prop. Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you.

   Great props include: dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a irresistible scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion, interesting ties, hats, or an interesting book or newspaper.

5. Be the host: Change your behavior from the role of guest to host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.
6. Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to meet. Say hello!
7. Listen: You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard.
8. Eye contact: Make eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away.Don’t stare? It’s a turn off.
9. Compliment: Compliment your partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know that you really noticed them.Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment the best response is merely, Thank You!
10. Smile: It is contagious. It will make you so much more approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet.

Make sure you don’t do the following blunders:

• If you practice on other girls, don't hurt them. Don't lead them on just to dump them. Pick girls you are really interested in. Who knows, you might end up finding someone even more interesting than the one you have your sights on.
• DON'T BE STUPID. Don't say anything that will make her mad, sad or uncomfortable.
• Never overreact to anything she says. She'll think you're mocking her and will become slightly uneasy.
• Never tell her you like her at the beginning because they will think whoa! And she will run for the hills.(distance herself from you)

Assignment: Practice makes perfection; Go out to the field and start flirting with 10 girls daily. Remember, Have fun.

For superp results check out Great materials such as Secrets of the Alpha Man, Secrets of Natural Attraction, and Personal Authority.

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